A different perspective
JING, JANG & JONG
One dilemma. A thoughtful listener, a questioning philosopher, and a man who refuses to take everything quite so seriously.
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Sometimes you don’t need someone to decide for you.
You need another way of looking.
ONE QUESTION, THREE ANSWERS
A conversation to start withThree people. Three ways into the question. See what stays with you.
It may help to ask what, exactly, you hope leaving will bring to an end. The work itself? The way you are treated? Or the feeling of becoming someone you no longer recognise? These experiences can resemble one another, but they call for different decisions.Continue with Jing
Leaving and staying tell us little until we understand what moves the person who chooses. One person stays out of loyalty; another out of fear. One person leaves with clarity; another carries the same restlessness through a new door.Continue with Jang
Before you quit, give your job a performance review. It has been reviewing you for years. Fairness demands a turn.Continue with Jong
FIND YOUR WAY IN
100 questions about ordinary, complicated lifeThe big decisions. The small doubts.
The things that keep coming back.
The people we love, the ties we keep, and when to let go.
Should I end my relationship?How do I know if I am in love or just afraid of being alone?EXPLORE ALL 25 QUESTIONS
Making a living. Making progress. Making room for life.
Should I quit my job?Should I change careers?EXPLORE ALL 25 QUESTIONS
What we need, what we want, and what enough looks like.
How much money is enough?Should I save for the future or enjoy my money now?EXPLORE ALL 25 QUESTIONS
The inner conversations that don’t always have words.
What should I do with my life?Why do I feel unhappy when my life looks good?EXPLORE ALL 25 QUESTIONSYOUR COMPANY ALONG THE WAY
A little older. Not necessarily wiser.
Raised in Vienna, shaped by New York, and repeatedly corrected by life. Jing has spent decades listening to what people say, what they leave out, and what they hope someone will finally ask.
Meet Jing
A former philosophy teacher from Hangzhou who has spent as much time caring for family and keeping a bookshop open as discussing how to live. Jang is suspicious of wisdom that only works in a quiet room.
Meet Jang
Former complaints clerk, occasional stage magician, and founder of several enterprises that are now valuable learning experiences. Jong has considerable experience of things going wrong, some of it accidental.
Meet JongThree friends who rarely
see things the same way.